Why Secrets Harm Your Kids

Episode Summary:

In this episode, Shauna shares three essential parenting strategies that have helped foster trust, safety, and open communication with her kids. From why we don’t do secrets (only surprises!) to handling tricky situations with neighbors and setting boundaries with babysitters, we offer practical tips for navigating the challenges of modern parenting. Tune in to hear how we empower our kids to speak up and stay safe in a complex world.

Episode Highlights:

[0:50] – The key difference between secrets and surprises, and why we emphasize this rule in our family.

[3:12] – Addressing an issue with a neighbor’s inappropriate video game and introducing the concept of “family business.”

[7:25] – How "family business" helps us keep sensitive topics within trusted circles while maintaining open communication.

[12:18] – The power of teaching children the correct anatomical terms to keep them informed and safe.

[16:40] – Establishing clear boundaries with babysitters and having tough conversations to protect our kids.

[21:05] – Role-playing scenarios with kids to help them set boundaries and feel confident in uncomfortable situations.

 

Links & Resources:

• Check out Attachment Nerd on Instagram for more about secure attachment and child safety.

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