The Golden Rule Gone Wrong: Misconceptions About Autism

Episode Summary:

In this episode, Shauna shares a funny, yet eye-opening encounter at a church activity that made her reflect on the well-intended (but sometimes unhelpful) advice she receives about autism. As she talks about her son Eli, his unique way of seeing the world, and the challenges we face navigating school systems and IEPs, you’ll get a real glimpse into the ups and downs of parenting a neurodivergent child. From quirky stories to the frustrations of advocating for proper support, this episode is a heartfelt and honest look at what it's like to raise a child with autism—and why understanding matters more than quick fixes.

Timeline Summary:

• [1:05] – The surprising (and awkward) conversation about "curing" autism.
• [4:32] – How visual flashcards help Eli learn words and remember patterns.
• [9:15] – The frustrations of an IEP that doesn’t support Eli’s real needs.
• [15:45] – My heated conversation with the principal about discipline and autism misunderstandings.
• [22:20] – Explaining Eli’s brain: why autism is like a blank Excel spreadsheet.
• [33:12] – The positive turnaround with Eli’s SPED teacher and the support she provided.
• [38:40] – Picture day chaos: Eli’s hilarious take on getting his school photo taken.

Links & Resources:

• The Pattern Seeker: How Autism Drives Human Invention – A book that explores how autistic minds have contributed to some of the greatest inventions.
• More info on ABA (Applied Behavior Analysis) Therapy for autism.

Closing Remark:

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